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BeMore - A True Friend

06-19-2019 - John Scott | Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Friendship. Real friendship. A true, long-lasting, unshaken bond between 2 people. Do you have someone like that in your life who fits into the true meaning of friendship? As I have think about my “true” friends, I realize that my circle of friends (the real influencers) is rather small. Maybe that’s the way it’s supposed to be. True friends are special, precious and unforgettable. Small, unique, intimate; a group of individuals who know you better than anyone.

Recently, I attended a men’s Christian conference focused on men being a greater source of love, support, strength, character and encouragement to their families, spouses and children. The overall purpose was to understand the importance of being a better Christian father and husband. Frankly, that is what God expects from us as men. As husbands, we know that God calls us to a great responsibility. Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." We love our wives, our children and even our neighbors and community. It is Christ’s example we honor when we show His love to others.

There are times, as men, when we need love and support too. We do our best to give of ourselves to others. So when things get tough, where do we turn? We know that our Father, in His great love, is always with us. We have His holy word that gives guidance, encouragement and inspiration. Thankfully, in addition, God created friends! Our friends make us better. They challenge us. They encourage us to be better in all we do. They inspire us while holding us up. They answer when we call at 2am to see us through a difficult time. Our true friends build us up, don’t give up on us and won’t let us give up on ourselves. Proverbs 27:17 NIV “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.”

This year, challenge you to Be More ... Be a true friend. I recently lost my grandmother of 89 years. As the matriarch of our family, she was a great woman. She was loving, caring, wise; all the attributes you would expect from one of the "good ones!" She was also a great friend. At her passing, one of her closest and oldest friends was still there after 60 years of friendship! What a great example!

Be a true friend. Tell your true friends how much you love them. Honor and respect your friendships. Give your friendships the very effort they deserve. Cherishing the time you’ve been given...and the time yet to come. That`s what makes true friendship!

God Bless You!
J. W. Lee
Follow me on Twitter -- @jwlee3427



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